You may be prone to judge yourself too harshly, and feelings of self-consciousness could cause you to look at all you do with a highly critical eye. You may be more inclined to focus on your weaknesses rather than your strengths. You may be able to change your mode of thinking to a more positive one, however, by treating yourself the way you would treat others. Instead of holding yourself to a higher standard, allow yourself to succeed and fail with the same grace that you allow others. Your ability to be kind, when directed inward, can support you the way it supports your loved ones and friends. Treat yourself with loving respect today, and you will develop self-acceptance.
When we begin to treat ourselves with the same kindness and compassion we reserve for others, our self-doubt will fade away and be replaced with confidence. Accepting that you, like all people, will make mistakes can help you quickly recover from life’s pitfalls, while celebrating your accomplishments will boost your self-confidence. Either way, you allow yourself and your actions to be worthy of your esteem. Being compassionate and kind with yourself means that you are supportive of your efforts, whether they result in mistakes or accomplishments. Treat yourself kindly today, and you’ll gain the confidence that comes from your act of self-love.
